Friday, March 23, 2012

Self-Hatred 10-woman (a black woman's misfortune)

I read a tweet today where a black woman claimed that white men are an upgrade from black men. To make matters worse it was formulated in a question in an attempt to pool other black women to agree with this disrespectful statement.
My problem is this;
What is it that she's really trying to promote? Has self-hatred swallowed her so in-depth that she could return home to meet with her father or grandfather to reiterate such a race hating statement?

Now being a black man I take totally responsibility for what I've done wrong and the many ill-mannered things that I have attributed to society; and more importantly those things that I have done to continue the downward spiral affect it has on our black community.
Nonetheless I refuse to allow such things to carry over to the next man (my brother) nor should his values be attached or aligned with my misbehaving.

For the record I am always pro BLACK because that is the community that I am attached to by blood, culture and genealogy. Those of you that know me personally or otherwise already know this but let that clear the air for those who may have not understood that fact.

I would like to also state this before I continue;
My childhood hero is and always has been "Malcolm X" and he stated this (I'm paraphrasing) "How can the wolf ask the sheep why he hates him". How does the rapist ask the assaulted or the victim why she/he hates the attacker? Since our captive times we have always been attacked and violated on each level by the same persons; THAT'S A FACT.. So again how do you expect me to feel in regards to these people. (Not all of them are evil but being honest how do I know who is and who isn't; honesty is not a tool used by these people at all. History proves that. Just watch FLORIDA on the news). RIP MY DEAR BRO TRAYVON....

The black race in itself has been attacked and assaulted in the worse humane manner without regard to severity and without question of responsibility. The assault has escalated and shifted beyond physical brute to an all out sociologically structured attack with a clear statement. However many of us choose to disobey the laws of nature and abide by the God-forsaken turn the other cheek affair. Even a tiny ant will defend himself if cornered off by any type of threat. Preservation of life is and always will be top priority for any species. Honestly I wouldn't expect to receive anything from a God that would tell me to sit down and do nothing about the situation that affects my people's and/or my own well-being.

So dear tweeter I would like to pass on a few things to you;
If changing the mindset or the overall behavior/lifestyle of our black men which would in fact correct the entire black community here in North America would take you from your job or career and protect and support you at home rearing the children of our community would you be willing to do that? Would you give up the career woman idea to allow black men to return to being real men by taking responsibility of their families and communities? Or has the idea of the American dream been embedded so deeply in you it became as critical to your livelihood as the very blood that runs through your veins?

Have you not realized that this is where the black family especially the black man been forced to emulate an orphan-like presence thus being reared by a heartless foster parent (the U.S. Government)?

Before you answer lets look at this; there was a time when black men were proud to have a job and bring home food and provide shelter for their children. This is still the reality of black men regardless to how his livelihood may appear or what his demeanor may present. At the same time it is the very black women that he sees in the street that turns her nose up to him because he has a job that may not produce the luxuries that black women see and worship on TV. Sure he would like to have those American dream luxuries just as you would but its just not as simple as TV depicts it but you are so wrapped up in it your mind is bent on the idea of seeing this sometimes unachievable reality come to life. So now his meager job is almost as bad as not having a job at all.

Its unfortunate that its easier to find a hustle than it is to find a job. Its easier to act an ass than to stand up and those of us that stand up half of you black women don't support so we go to other ethnic groups just to hear more ranting and raving over selfishness. Whether its right or wrong its a fact and no one dares to speak on it.. We just complain.

Your self hatred has caused your mindset to promote disrespectful and degrading thoughts and you seem to think of it as actuality when its just a mirror of self-hatred and you refuse to accept it for what it is. I don't totally blame you for your mindset because I see what you don't see you. I see deeper into the idea of who, what and where its stems from. I realize how that white man that you are raising higher than the black man God created you from has brain-washed you. In fact its from the core of that very black man you are degrading that both you and that white man that you love so much were produced and if you would take one second to think about that you would understand what your position is in the situation your black man is.

Have you considered your father or grandfather or his father or his father's father in that ridiculous remark? Those that died so that you may live have you considered them? And let me answer your next statement before you let it out your mouth; no they don't make men like that anymore. But the word "THEY" is referring again to the black woman. If it had not been for the black woman the black man would have never made it through slavery. It was that strong black woman (the black man's help-mate) that raised them young black boys to be men. It wasn't the black man IT WAS THE BLACK WOMAN.. And they certainly aren't made the same anymore!! Did you know that your slave masters tried to enslave their own Irish-men before they began to seek out our beautiful black race. Not only were they too weak to carry out the assignment but they also lacked one key element; THE BLACK WOMAN!!

The black family needs reform but most of you rather sit at the table and be accepted and loved by the very man that thinks very little of you and even less about that father you come from. Sadly you black woman have now entered the same devilish mindset towards your own black brother as your former owner has. You are more than a house ninja you are a house whore...

I'll end with this;
Even if that's your opinion (you are welcomed to have it) I just hope that you wouldn't teach your children to be ant-black men as you obviously are. The black woman cannot produce without the black man and you definitely wouldn't exist if it wasn't for that black man that you are so disgusted with. Remember it is from him whence you came so perhaps you have an issue with your maker since he attached you with the black man. And to say that white man are prone to do the things in bed that black men are afraid to do puts things in the right perspective for me now. You are so wrapped up in your freakish ways you wouldn't appreciate a real black man either way as he would choose to treat you as a woman but you would rather be treated as a whore.......

Yo need to do some soul searching and perhaps skipping the club and a few drinks and picking up a book that teaches you more than some damn institution would might be a GREAT IDEA.....


A Proud BLACKMAN

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